The Funeral.com Journal

Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.

Immediate Family Funeral Etiquette: Seating, Procession Order, and What to Say

Immediate Family Funeral Etiquette: Seating, Procession Order, and What to Say

If you are part of the immediate family, it is normal to feel unsure about what you are “supposed” to do. You may be grieving and also noticing that other...

Urn Colors and Finishes: How They Look in Real Homes

Urn Colors and Finishes: How They Look in Real Homes

The first time many families really “see” an urn isn’t in a showroom. It’s at home, in ordinary light, on a shelf or a table that’s already full of daily...

What a Funeral Director Wishes Families Knew

What a Funeral Director Wishes Families Knew

Most families I meet don’t walk into a funeral home expecting to talk about containers. They expect to talk about a person. And yet, somewhere between the phone calls, the...

When to Call a Funeral Home vs. 911 (Funeral Home vs 911 After Death)

When to Call a Funeral Home vs. 911 (Funeral Home vs 911 After Death)

The first minutes after a death can feel like a fog. Even when a loss was expected, your mind may still reach for a “next step” the way it would...

What to Bring to the Funeral Home Arrangement Meeting

What to Bring to the Funeral Home Arrangement Meeting

If you searched for a funeral arrangement meeting checklist, you’re probably trying to do something very difficult while feeling very tired: walk into a funeral home, answer questions you never...

Columbarium Niche Decorations: Common Rules on Photos, Flowers, Flags, and What Gets Removed

Columbarium Niche Decorations: Common Rules on Photos, Flowers, Flags, and What Gets Removed

A columbarium niche can feel like a promise: a permanent place where you can return, say their name out loud, and feel that small steadying sense of “here.” For many...

Printing Funeral Programs at Home: Printer Settings, Paper Choices, and a Stress-Free Checklist

Printing Funeral Programs at Home: Printer Settings, Paper Choices, and a Stress-Free Checklist

When you are grieving, even “small” tasks can feel enormous. A memorial program is one of those details that carries more weight than it should: names you want spelled perfectly,...

Pets at Home Funerals: Should They See the Body? Understanding Animal Reactions and Safety

Pets at Home Funerals: Should They See the Body? Understanding Animal Reactions and Safety

In the first hours after a death, a home can feel like it has changed its temperature. The air is quieter. People speak in shorter sentences. Even when grief is...

Candle Safety for Vigils: A Practical Protocol for Homes, Kids, Pets, and Overnight Burning

Candle Safety for Vigils: A Practical Protocol for Homes, Kids, Pets, and Overnight Burning

Candles can make a vigil feel steady. They give people a shared center when words are hard. But vigils are also high-risk moments for open flames: people are tired, emotions...

Children at Home Funerals: How to Prepare Kids for Viewing, Questions, and Big Feelings

Children at Home Funerals: How to Prepare Kids for Viewing, Questions, and Big Feelings

The house can feel different after someone dies—quiet in a way that has weight. Adults move softly, phones buzz, and the kitchen table fills with paperwork and half-finished cups of...

Planning a Shoreline Ceremony Without a Boat: Common Alternatives

Planning a Shoreline Ceremony Without a Boat: Common Alternatives

If you imagined an “at-sea” goodbye and the logistics fell apart—no boat, no safe weather window, no one able to travel, or simply no desire to be out on open...

Columbarium Niches Explained: How They Work and What to Ask

Columbarium Niches Explained: How They Work and What to Ask

For many families, choosing cremation is only the first step. After the service is over and the paperwork is signed, there’s often a quieter moment that arrives: the ashes are...

Measuring for a Niche: How to Avoid a “Won’t Fit” Surprise

Measuring for a Niche: How to Avoid a “Won’t Fit” Surprise

Columbarium niches have a way of looking simple—clean stone or metal, a nameplate, a calm wall of dates. Then the day arrives, the cemetery office opens the niche, and a...

Can the Public Attend a Celebrity Funeral? How Access Works and What to Expect

Can the Public Attend a Celebrity Funeral? How Access Works and What to Expect

The moment a celebrity death is announced, the public response can feel immediate and massive: headlines, social posts, replayed interviews, and the instinct many people have to gather somewhere—anywhere—to mark...

Choosing Between Cemetery Placement and Home Placement: A Decision Guide

Choosing Between Cemetery Placement and Home Placement: A Decision Guide

After a cremation, there is often a moment when everything gets quiet—quiet enough that you can finally hear the question you have been avoiding. The ashes are home, sometimes in...

What to Do When a Columbarium Has a Waitlist: Interim Options

What to Do When a Columbarium Has a Waitlist: Interim Options

You thought the hard decisions were behind you. The cremation is complete. The paperwork is mostly signed. You have the urn in your hands, and you can finally picture what...