The Funeral.com Journal
Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.
Utilities After a Death: How to Transfer or Shut Off Electricity, Cable, Internet, and Subscriptions
After someone dies, the house often keeps doing what it has always done. The refrigerator hums. The porch light still comes on at dusk. The Wi-Fi router blinks like a...
Autopsy Reports and Death Certificates: How to Request Them and What They Can Reveal
In the first days after a death, paperwork can feel like an added weight on top of grief. Families are often trying to do two things at once: make decisions...
When Alexa or Siri Still Calls Their Name: Updating Voice Assistants and Smart Routines After a Death
It can happen on an ordinary morning. You’re standing in the kitchen, the house is quiet in the particular way it becomes quiet after a loss, and then a smart...
Body Donation to Science: Eligibility, What Happens, and How to Communicate Your Wishes
The call usually comes at the worst possible time—when a family is still trying to understand what just happened. A nurse, a hospice coordinator, or a loved one at home...
Instagram Memorialization vs. Deletion: Which Should You Choose?
In the first days after a death, families often move between two worlds at once. One world is paperwork, phone calls, and decisions that feel strangely practical in the middle...
What Is a Facebook Legacy Contact (and How to Set It Up)
In the days after a death, families often discover that grief comes with a second kind of work: closing loops. Phone calls. Paperwork. Decisions about services. And then, quietly, the...
Planning a Funeral on a Holiday Weekend: Availability Challenges and Practical Workarounds
A holiday weekend can feel like the worst possible time for loss—not because grief follows a calendar, but because everything else suddenly does. Phones go to voicemail. Offices close early....
Storing a Body Before the Funeral: Refrigeration, Embalming, and Home Care Options
A death can make time feel strange. The hours after someone dies may be full of quiet—phone calls, travel plans, a sudden list of decisions—while your heart is still trying...
Embalming Explained: When It’s Required, Alternatives, and How It Affects Timing
In the first hours after a death, families are often asked a question that feels oddly technical for such an emotional moment: “Will you be embalming?” It can sound like...
Open vs Closed Casket: How to Decide, What to Expect, and How to Tell Family
Most families do not start funeral planning expecting to weigh something as intimate as open casket vs closed casket. It can feel like you are choosing between two different kinds of...
Last-Minute Funeral Planning: A Fast Checklist for a Meaningful Service
When you have to plan a funeral or memorial quickly, it can feel like the world is asking you to make permanent decisions while you’re still trying to breathe. The...
End-of-Life Paperwork Checklist: Essential Documents to Prepare Before You Die
Most families don’t get stuck because they “didn’t love enough” or “didn’t do enough.” They get stuck because the paperwork isn’t where it needs to be. A hospital asks for...
Swedish Death Cleaning in Your 40s: A Practical Guide to Decluttering With Purpose
If you’re in your 40s and the word “death cleaning” makes you flinch, you’re not alone. Swedish death cleaning (often referred to by the Swedish term döstädning) sounds heavier than...
Driving a Body Across State Lines: What Paperwork Do You Need?
When someone dies far from home, the first wish many families say out loud is simple: “We want to bring them home.” It’s a loving instinct, and it can also...