The Funeral.com Journal
Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.
Suicide Loss Etiquette: Privacy, Language, and Supporting the Family Without Rumors
After a death, most families are already carrying enough: shock, paperwork, phone calls, a flood of emotions that don’t arrive in neat order. After suicide, grief often shows up with...
Estranged Family at Funerals: Seating, Boundaries, and Keeping the Focus on the Deceased
If you are walking into a funeral with an estranged relative on the guest list, you are not imagining the tension. A service that is supposed to be about honoring...
Kids at Funerals: Age-Appropriate Behavior Expectations and How to Prepare Them
When you are grieving, it can feel like there is no margin for error. Adding children to the day can bring up a new layer of worry: kids at funerals...
Should Children Be Present for Pet Euthanasia? Age-Appropriate Options and How to Prepare
Most families don’t imagine they’ll ever have to weigh this question: should a child be present when a beloved pet is euthanized? And yet, it arrives in real life the...
Should You Stay in the Room During Pet Euthanasia? A Compassionate Guide to the Emotional Choice
There are decisions in life that feel like they belong to someone else—choices you never expected to make, in a room you never wanted to sit in. If you’re facing...
Planning When Family Is Long-Distance: Coordination Shortcuts
When a death happens and the people who love someone most live in different places, grief can start to feel like project management. One person is calling a funeral home...
When to Hold a Pet Memorial: Timing That Supports Kids and Adults
The days after a pet dies can feel strangely quiet. The routines that anchored your home—morning walks, the sound of paws on the floor, the small “I’m here” moments—suddenly stop....
Talking to a Child About Euthanasia and Cremation: Age-Appropriate Wording
When a family is facing a pet’s decline, adults often carry two kinds of grief at once. There’s the heartbreak of watching a beloved companion suffer, and there’s the quieter...
Storing Passwords and Digital Legacy Details: What Families Actually Do
It rarely starts with a grand “planning day.” More often, it starts with a small, urgent moment: someone is gone, the house is quiet, and the person who always handled...
Social Security After a Death: What Families Do First
The first hours after a death rarely unfold the way anyone imagines. Even in a peaceful passing, grief has a disorienting quality: time slows down, simple decisions feel strangely heavy,...
How to Handle Family Requests You Can’t Meet: Boundary Scripts
In the middle of loss, it can feel like grief turns every conversation up to full volume. The requests come quickly. Someone wants the service moved to a different day....
How to Explain an Urn to Children: Simple Language That Reassures
When an urn enters a home, it changes the emotional weather in a room. Adults may see a symbol, a responsibility, a decision they are not ready to finalize. Children...
How to Talk to Kids About Cremation: A Parent Script by Age
When adults are grieving, our brains look for something solid to hold onto. Kids do the same thing, except they don’t always have the words for it. They notice the...
Helping Children Grieve a Pet: What to Say in Simple Language
If you’re searching helping children grieve a pet, you’re probably not looking for a perfect speech. You’re looking for a few steady words that won’t make things worse. You want...