The Funeral.com Journal

Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.

Comparing the New Puppy to the Old Dog: How to Stop

Comparing the New Puppy to the Old Dog: How to Stop

There’s a moment many families don’t expect after bringing home a new puppy: you’re standing in the kitchen, the water bowl clinks, a tail thumps against the cabinet—and your mind...

Teenagers and Pet Loss: Validating Their Silent Grief

Teenagers and Pet Loss: Validating Their Silent Grief

A teenager might walk past the empty food bowl without flinching, keep scrolling through their phone, and shrug when you ask, “Are you okay?” From the outside, it can look...

How to Help a Surviving Cat Cope with the Loss of a Companion

How to Help a Surviving Cat Cope with the Loss of a Companion

The first thing most families notice after a cat dies isn’t always the silence. Sometimes it’s the wrong kind of sound: a surviving cat yowling down the hallway at night,...

Grieving a "Soul Pet": Why This Loss Feels Different Than Others

Grieving a "Soul Pet": Why This Loss Feels Different Than Others

There are losses that arrive like weather—hard, undeniable, and shared by everyone around you. And then there are losses that feel strangely private, even when people are kind. The death...

Identity Crisis: Who Am I If I’m Not a "Dog Mom" Anymore?

Identity Crisis: Who Am I If I’m Not a "Dog Mom" Anymore?

For a long time, being a “dog mom” (or “dog dad,” or simply “their person”) wasn’t just something you did. It was the way your days were structured, the way...

Pre-Grieving: Why You Feel Guilty for Thinking About Life After They're Gone

Pre-Grieving: Why You Feel Guilty for Thinking About Life After They're Gone

If you’re caring for an aging or terminally ill pet, you may be living in two timelines at once. In one, you’re still measuring medications, counting breaths, watching appetite, celebrating...

Bucket Lists for Terminally Ill Pets: Ideas for Every Mobility Level

Bucket Lists for Terminally Ill Pets: Ideas for Every Mobility Level

When a veterinarian says the words “terminal” or “end-of-life,” time changes shape. The days can feel too fast and too heavy at the same time. Many families start searching for...

Natural Death vs. Euthanasia: Debunking the Myths of a "Peaceful" Natural Passing

Natural Death vs. Euthanasia: Debunking the Myths of a "Peaceful" Natural Passing

When a veterinarian says, gently, that a beloved dog or cat is nearing the end, many families feel a sudden need to choose the “right” kind of goodbye. Some people...

Coping with the Diagnosis: When the Vet Says "There's Nothing More We Can Do"

Coping with the Diagnosis: When the Vet Says "There's Nothing More We Can Do"

You don’t forget the moment the room shifts. Maybe the vet’s voice is steady and kind. Maybe they say it gently—“We’ve reached the end of what curative treatment can do.”...

Palliative Care vs. Hospice for Pets: Understanding Your Options

Palliative Care vs. Hospice for Pets: Understanding Your Options

There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that arrives before a pet is gone. It shows up in small moments first: your dog pausing halfway up the stairs, your cat choosing...

Explaining Euthanasia to Kids: Scripts for Different Age Groups

Explaining Euthanasia to Kids: Scripts for Different Age Groups

There’s a particular kind of ache that shows up when a family realizes a beloved pet is nearing the end. Adults are often juggling two worlds at once: the quiet,...

How to Plan a Peaceful At-Home Euthanasia: A Step-by-Step Guide

How to Plan a Peaceful At-Home Euthanasia: A Step-by-Step Guide

There’s a particular kind of love that shows up at the end of a pet’s life. It looks like carrying them when their legs can’t do the work anymore. It...

Is My Dog in Pain? Silent Signs Your Senior Pet is Suffering

Is My Dog in Pain? Silent Signs Your Senior Pet is Suffering

If you live with a senior dog, you already know how quietly time changes things. One day they’re leaping into the car without thinking; another day they pause at the...

Anticipatory Grief: Why You’re Mourning Before They Are Gone

Anticipatory Grief: Why You’re Mourning Before They Are Gone

You can love your pet fiercely and still find yourself grieving them while they’re curled up right beside you. That contradiction is often the first clue you’re living with anticipatory...

Healing Together: Family Rituals for Pet Loss

Healing Together: Family Rituals for Pet Loss

The first quiet after a pet dies can feel louder than anything. A water bowl sits untouched. The leash hangs where it always did. Someone in the family reaches for...

How to Help a Pet Who Is Grieving a Companion

How to Help a Pet Who Is Grieving a Companion

The first sign is often the quiet. A dog who usually trots to the kitchen when the bag rustles stays curled on the rug. A cat who used to patrol...