The Funeral.com Journal

Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.

Creating a Ritual: Lighting a Candle Every Monday

Creating a Ritual: Lighting a Candle Every Monday

The first Monday after a pet dies can feel strangely loud. The weekend is gone, routines restart, and the places your companion used to “be” in the week suddenly stand...

Journaling Prompts to Help Process the Loss of a Companion Animal

Journaling Prompts to Help Process the Loss of a Companion Animal

The day you bring your pet’s ashes home is often quieter than you expect. Not quieter emotionally—just quieter in the house. The leash still hangs by the door. The water...

Adopting After Loss: Dealing with the Fear of Losing Another

Adopting After Loss: Dealing with the Fear of Losing Another

The first time you consider adopting again after a profound pet loss, the fear doesn’t usually announce itself with drama. It arrives quietly, disguised as “being responsible,” as “doing more...

The Science of Energy: Where Does the Love Go When They Die?

The Science of Energy: Where Does the Love Go When They Die?

There’s a particular kind of silence that settles in after a death—after the calls have been made, after the first wave of condolences, after you’ve stared at the same photo...

Signs from the Other Side: Stories of After-Death Communication

Signs from the Other Side: Stories of After-Death Communication

When a pet dies, the house gets quieter in a way that feels almost physical. The water bowl is still there. The favorite spot on the couch still holds the...

Small Animal Loss: Grieving Hamsters, Rats, and Guinea Pigs

Small Animal Loss: Grieving Hamsters, Rats, and Guinea Pigs

The first thing most people notice isn’t the moment your small pet dies. It’s the quiet that follows. The wheel doesn’t turn at midnight. The water bottle stays perfectly still....

Commissioning Pet Portraits: How to Choose the Right Artist

Commissioning Pet Portraits: How to Choose the Right Artist

The first time you notice the empty spot is rarely the moment you expect. It might be the kitchen mat that stays clean, the leash hook that never moves, or...

Introducing a New Pet to a Grieving Pack: Timing and Territory

Introducing a New Pet to a Grieving Pack: Timing and Territory

The first time you notice it, it’s something small. A dog who used to sprint to the door when you picked up the leash now lifts their head, pauses, and...

Men and Pet Loss: Breaking the Stigma of Male Grief

Men and Pet Loss: Breaking the Stigma of Male Grief

He didn’t cry at the vet’s office. He stood straight, signed the paperwork, carried the leash out like it still had a job to do—and then he drove home with...

Pet Loss and Workplace Compassion: How Employers Can Support Staff

Pet Loss and Workplace Compassion: How Employers Can Support Staff

When an employee returns to work after losing a pet, the grief often arrives quietly first. It shows up in small pauses over email, in a sudden need to step...

Grieving a Childhood Pet as an Adult: Why the Pain Resurfaces

Grieving a Childhood Pet as an Adult: Why the Pain Resurfaces

You can be decades removed from the day you said goodbye, and still be caught off guard by how quickly your chest tightens when you see a dog that looks...

Money, Grief, and Impulse Decisions: Big Purchases, Gifts, and Avoiding Long-Term Regrets

Money, Grief, and Impulse Decisions: Big Purchases, Gifts, and Avoiding Long-Term Regrets

In the first days after a death, money can start to feel strangely unreal. Some people swing toward caution and can’t bring themselves to buy anything at all—not even groceries....

When the Vet Bill Comes After the Loss: Financial Stress and Grief

When the Vet Bill Comes After the Loss: Financial Stress and Grief

The first days after a pet dies can feel like walking through fog. You might still be stepping around the food bowl out of habit, still listening for the familiar...

Headstone Sayings for Babies and Children: Gentle Epitaph Ideas for Little Lives

Headstone Sayings for Babies and Children: Gentle Epitaph Ideas for Little Lives

There are parts of funeral planning that feel practical—paperwork, phone calls, timelines, decisions you can make with a steady hand. Choosing words for a baby’s or child’s headstone is not like...

Home Memorial Corners and Altars: How to Set Up, Maintain, and Adjust Them as Grief Changes

Home Memorial Corners and Altars: How to Set Up, Maintain, and Adjust Them as Grief Changes

There’s a moment many families recognize after the calls are made, the paperwork is signed, and the busy first week begins to quiet: you walk through your home and feel...

The Quality of Life Scale: An Objective Tool for a Subjective Heartbreak

The Quality of Life Scale: An Objective Tool for a Subjective Heartbreak

There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that comes with loving a pet who is declining. Not the obvious tiredness of interrupted sleep or extra appointments, but the quieter fatigue of...