The Funeral.com Journal

Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.

Family Pet Memorial Ceremony: Simple Ideas Kids Can Help Lead (Readings, Rituals, and Keepsakes)

Family Pet Memorial Ceremony: Simple Ideas Kids Can Help Lead (Readings, Rituals, and Keepsakes)

A pet memorial ceremony doesn’t have to be elaborate or formal to carry deep meaning. For many families, the gentlest farewell is often the simplest: a short gathering at home,...

Pet Urn Size Calculator: Find The Right Capacity (Cubic Inches) & Split Ashes For Keepsakes

Pet Urn Size Calculator: Find The Right Capacity (Cubic Inches) & Split Ashes For Keepsakes

If you’ve ever found yourself googling pet urn size calculator at 2 a.m., you’re not alone. Choosing the right urn size may seem like a simple calculation, but in reality,...

Choosing Cremation Memorials That Feel Like Love: Urns, Keepsakes, Jewelry, and a Clear Plan

Choosing Cremation Memorials That Feel Like Love: Urns, Keepsakes, Jewelry, and a Clear Plan

When a death happens, whether it’s someone you love deeply or a pet who was woven into your daily life—there’s a moment when the world goes quiet and practical decisions...

Books to Help Toddlers Understand the Death of a Pet

Books to Help Toddlers Understand the Death of a Pet

When a pet dies, adults often feel two kinds of grief at once: the heartbreak of missing a beloved companion, and the ache of trying to explain something enormous to...

What To Say When Someone Loses a Pet: Texts, Cards & Workplace Scripts (And What Not To Say)

What To Say When Someone Loses a Pet: Texts, Cards & Workplace Scripts (And What Not To Say)

If you have ever stared at your phone after hearing “we had to say goodbye,” you already know the challenge: you care, you want to show up, and your mind...

Children and Pet Loss: The "Rainbow Bridge" Explanation vs. Biological Truth

Children and Pet Loss: The "Rainbow Bridge" Explanation vs. Biological Truth

When a pet dies, adults often feel two kinds of pain at once: the ache of missing a beloved companion, and the fear of saying the wrong thing to a...

Pet Memorial Jewelry Hub: Types, How to Fill & Seal, Care, Waterproofing & FAQs

Pet Memorial Jewelry Hub: Types, How to Fill & Seal, Care, Waterproofing & FAQs

In the days after a pet dies, grief has an odd way of slipping into ordinary moments. You reach for a leash that isn’t needed anymore. You pause when you...

Pet Loss FAQ Mega-Guide: 100 Quick Answers on Grief, Cremation, Ashes, Urns & Memorial Jewelry

Pet Loss FAQ Mega-Guide: 100 Quick Answers on Grief, Cremation, Ashes, Urns & Memorial Jewelry

In the days after a pet dies, the questions can feel endless and unexpectedly urgent. You’re navigating grief while also facing decisions you never imagined having to make. Even well-meaning...

Should I Let My Other Dog Sniff the Body? The Pros and Cons

Should I Let My Other Dog Sniff the Body? The Pros and Cons

When you lose a beloved dog, the grief is profound — not just for you, but often for the other pets in your home. Among the many questions grieving guardians...

Do Dogs Grieve? Recognizing Depression in Surviving Pets

Do Dogs Grieve? Recognizing Depression in Surviving Pets

The first thing many families notice isn’t dramatic. It’s quiet. The house feels “off,” even if you’re trying to keep everything normal. You still reach for the second leash out...

Secondary Guilt: When You Cry More for Your Pet Than a Passed Relative

Secondary Guilt: When You Cry More for Your Pet Than a Passed Relative

There’s a particular kind of shame that can sneak in after a loss—quiet, sharp, and surprisingly persistent. It’s the feeling that your grief has somehow “betrayed” your family. You might...

Regretting the Vet Choice: Making Peace with Medical Trauma

Regretting the Vet Choice: Making Peace with Medical Trauma

The regret usually arrives after the hardest part is already over. At first, you’re simply trying to keep your pet alive, comfortable, and close. You’re making decisions in a fluorescent...

Financial Guilt: "If I Had More Money, Could I Have Saved Them?"

Financial Guilt: "If I Had More Money, Could I Have Saved Them?"

If you’ve found yourself replaying the same thought on a loop—If I had more money, could I have saved them?—you’re not alone. Financial guilt after a pet’s death has a...

Behavioral Euthanasia: The Unique Stigma of Putting a Dangerous Dog Down

Behavioral Euthanasia: The Unique Stigma of Putting a Dangerous Dog Down

There are losses that arrive with casseroles and sympathy cards. And then there are losses that arrive with silence. If you have made—or are facing—the decision often called behavioral euthanasia,...

Did They Know I Loved Them? An Animal Communicator’s Perspective

Did They Know I Loved Them? An Animal Communicator’s Perspective

There’s a particular kind of grief that shows up after a pet dies—quiet, sharp, and strangely specific. It’s not only “I miss them,” or “the house feels empty.” It’s the...

I Killed My Best Friend: Forgiving Yourself After Making the Euthanasia Call

I Killed My Best Friend: Forgiving Yourself After Making the Euthanasia Call

There’s a sentence some people whisper only in their heads, because it feels too ugly to say out loud: “I killed my best friend.” If you’re here, you may be...