The Funeral.com Journal

Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.

Writing an Obituary for Your Cat: Examples and Templates

Writing an Obituary for Your Cat: Examples and Templates

There are some losses that change a home without making a sound. The water bowl stays full. The sunny spot on the floor stays warm. The familiar weight that used...

DIY Shadow Boxes: How to Preserve Collars, Tags, and Toys

DIY Shadow Boxes: How to Preserve Collars, Tags, and Toys

There are some items you don’t throw away—not because you’re stuck, but because your hands remember what it felt like to hold them in ordinary life. A collar that still...

Why Your Surviving Pet’s Personality Might Change Permanently

Why Your Surviving Pet’s Personality Might Change Permanently

After a pet dies, the house doesn’t just feel quieter to you—it can feel quieter to the animal who remains. Many families notice a shift that’s hard to describe but...

50 Meaningful Ways to Memorialize Your Pet (That Aren’t Tattoos)

50 Meaningful Ways to Memorialize Your Pet (That Aren’t Tattoos)

Some losses rearrange the furniture of your life. A leash that still hangs by the door. A food bowl you can’t bring yourself to move. The quiet at the hour...

The Last Day: 10 Ways to Make Their Final 24 Hours Perfect

The Last Day: 10 Ways to Make Their Final 24 Hours Perfect

There’s a particular kind of love that shows up in a pet’s final day. It’s tender, fierce, ordinary, and surreal all at once. You might be counting medication times, watching...

Wanting to Rest with Your Pet Someday: How to Talk with Family and Plan Ahead

Wanting to Rest with Your Pet Someday: How to Talk with Family and Plan Ahead

There are some wishes that sit quietly in the background for years, until a birthday, a holiday, or a sudden loss brings them into focus. Wanting to be laid to...

Why Losing a Dog Can Feel Worse Than Losing a Relative: The Psychology Behind the Pain

Why Losing a Dog Can Feel Worse Than Losing a Relative: The Psychology Behind the Pain

If you’ve lost a dog and found yourself thinking, “Why does this hurt so much—sometimes even more than losing certain relatives?” you’re not broken, dramatic, or disloyal to your family....

Pet Loss Myths That Hurt the Healing Process

Pet Loss Myths That Hurt the Healing Process

When a pet dies, the grief can feel both obvious and strangely invisible at the same time. Obvious, because your day-to-day life changes immediately: the quiet by the door, the...

Pets in Human Cemeteries: Special Sections, Companion Graves, and What’s Allowed

Pets in Human Cemeteries: Special Sections, Companion Graves, and What’s Allowed

If you have ever stood at a grave and wished you could also visit a pet you loved just as deeply, you already understand why this question is becoming more...

What to Do With Pet Ashes: Options, Rituals, and Meaning

What to Do With Pet Ashes: Options, Rituals, and Meaning

When a beloved pet dies, the quiet that follows can feel unreal. And then, often sooner than you’d like, something tangible arrives: a container, a box, a bag inside a...

Where Can You Bury a Dog Legally? Home, Pet Cemetery, or Private Land Explained

Where Can You Bury a Dog Legally? Home, Pet Cemetery, or Private Land Explained

When a dog dies, families often feel two strong urges at the same time: the need to do something loving right now, and the fear of getting it wrong. Burial...

Home Pet Burial Laws in the U.S.: Distance, Depth, and When You Need to Choose Another Option

Home Pet Burial Laws in the U.S.: Distance, Depth, and When You Need to Choose Another Option

When a beloved pet dies, the first instinct is often simple: bring them home, choose a quiet place in the yard, and give them a resting place you can visit...

Pet Cemetery Burial Guide: Plots, Headstones, and What to Expect at a Pet Graveyard

Pet Cemetery Burial Guide: Plots, Headstones, and What to Expect at a Pet Graveyard

When a pet dies, families often describe a strange split reality. One part of you is grieving in a way that feels quiet but physical, like your body is missing...

Helping Children Cope With the Death of a Pet: Age-by-Age Guidance for Parents

Helping Children Cope With the Death of a Pet: Age-by-Age Guidance for Parents

For many children, a pet is their first best friend. Pets are there for sleepy mornings, hard school days, and the quiet in-between moments when a child just needs company...

How to Create a Simple Pet Memorial Ceremony at Home

How to Create a Simple Pet Memorial Ceremony at Home

The days after a pet dies can feel strangely quiet. The leash still hangs by the door. The food bowl hasn’t moved. Even when you’re “doing okay,” your body notices...

Marking the Anniversary of a Pet’s Death: Gentle Ideas for a Day of Remembrance

Marking the Anniversary of a Pet’s Death: Gentle Ideas for a Day of Remembrance

The first time the date comes back around, it can feel surprisingly sharp. You may be doing “okay” in the practical sense—going to work, answering messages, even laughing again—and then...