The Funeral.com Journal

Resources to help you create tributes as unique as the people (and pets) you love. Learn how engraving, photos, colors, and symbols add meaning; discover scattering rituals and at-home memorial ideas. We focus on the details that matter—because small choices can carry a lifetime of comfort.

What to Do If Ashes Spill: Practical Steps and Emotional Reassurance - Funeral.com, Inc.

What to Do If Ashes Spill: Practical Steps and Emotional Reassurance

Losing someone you love is never easy, and when you’re handling cremated remains — perhaps placing them into cremation urns for ashes or organizing a memorial — every moment can...

What to Do If the Urn Breaks: Safe Transfer Options - Funeral.com, Inc.

What to Do If the Urn Breaks: Safe Transfer Options

Losing someone you love is already so difficult, and the unexpected breakage of a cremation urn can intensify that sense of vulnerability. Whether a cherished ceramic urn slipped from a...

How to Split Ashes Fairly When There Are Many Children - Funeral.com, Inc.

How to Split Ashes Fairly When There Are Many Children

When a family has many children, the question of how to divide cremated remains can feel like it carries more weight than it “should.” The container may be small, but...

Splitting Ashes When There Are Two Families: A Respectful Planning Guide - Funeral.com, Inc.

Splitting Ashes When There Are Two Families: A Respectful Planning Guide

When a loved one leaves behind a spouse or long-term partner and also adult children—especially when those relationships come from different chapters of life—the grief can be immediate, and the...

Sharing Ashes Among Family: A Practical, Conflict-Reducing Plan - Funeral.com, Inc.

Sharing Ashes Among Family: A Practical, Conflict-Reducing Plan

When a family asks about sharing ashes among family, they are rarely asking a purely practical question. They are asking how to stay connected without arguing, how to honor one...

Splitting Ashes When Family Lives in Different States: Logistics That Simplify - Funeral.com, Inc.

Splitting Ashes When Family Lives in Different States: Logistics That Simplify

When the people who love someone most are spread across the country, grief can feel split, too. A sibling is in Oregon. A parent is in Florida. A spouse is...

How Families Decide Who Receives Ashes: Common Approaches That Work - Funeral.com, Inc.

How Families Decide Who Receives Ashes: Common Approaches That Work

When a loved one is cremated, the question of who receives ashes after cremation naturally arises. For many families, this simple question unfolds into a deeply emotional conversation about memory,...

Splitting Ashes When the Relationship Was Complicated: Boundaries and Clarity - Funeral.com, Inc.

Splitting Ashes When the Relationship Was Complicated: Boundaries and Clarity

When a loved one passes — especially someone with whom your relationship was strained — decisions about cremation urns, what to do with ashes, and how to share them can...

How to Store Multiple Keepsakes in One Home: Organization Without Clutter - Funeral.com, Inc.

How to Store Multiple Keepsakes in One Home: Organization Without Clutter

Multiple keepsakes can feel like a warm, steady presence in a home—or like a growing pile that quietly steals your peace. Most families don’t set out to “collect” memorial items....

When There Aren’t Enough Ashes to Split: Practical, Meaningful Alternatives for Families - Funeral.com, Inc.

When There Aren’t Enough Ashes to Split: Practical, Meaningful Alternatives for Families

Families often assume that choosing cremation automatically means there will be “enough” to share—enough for a handful of keepsake urns, enough for a few pieces of cremation jewelry, enough to...

Traveling With Keepsakes: How to Reduce Loss and Stress - Funeral.com, Inc.

Traveling With Keepsakes: How to Reduce Loss and Stress

If you’re traveling with a keepsake that contains ashes, you’re carrying something that does not feel like an “item.” It feels like a person, a relationship, a memory you promised...

Filling Ash Jewelry at Home: A Careful Method That Avoids Spills - Funeral.com, Inc.

Filling Ash Jewelry at Home: A Careful Method That Avoids Spills

If you have ever looked at an urn pendant and thought, “How can something so small feel so high-stakes?” you are not alone. Filling cremation jewelry at home is one...

Sealing Ash Jewelry Properly: Adhesives, Threads, and Best Practices - Funeral.com, Inc.

Sealing Ash Jewelry Properly: Adhesives, Threads, and Best Practices

There’s a specific kind of worry that can show up after you choose memorial jewelry: not the big, existential grief (though that is always there), but the practical fear of...

What to Do If Ash Jewelry Leaks: Immediate Steps and Prevention - Funeral.com, Inc.

What to Do If Ash Jewelry Leaks: Immediate Steps and Prevention

The moment you notice a damp spot near a pendant, a bit of powder on your fingers, or a faint “gritty” residue on your chain, your brain tends to jump...

How to Prevent Leaks in Ash Jewelry: Simple Habits That Help - Funeral.com, Inc.

How to Prevent Leaks in Ash Jewelry: Simple Habits That Help

If you wear cremation jewelry, you probably know the moment I’m talking about: you catch a tiny dark speck on your fingertips, or you notice a faint line on the...

Witness Cremation Explained: What It Is and Reasons Families Choose It - Funeral.com, Inc.

Witness Cremation Explained: What It Is and Reasons Families Choose It

In the days after a death, families often find themselves juggling two kinds of realities at once: the emotional weight of loss, and the practical decisions that have to be...